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My Choices Foundation hosts multiple activities for #16DaysOfActivism
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My Choices Foundation hosts multiple activities for #16DaysOfActivism
Every year, the annual campaign #16DaysOfActivism kicks off on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and runs until 10 December, Human Rights Day. This year marks the 30th anniversary of the campaign as it was originated in 1991 by activists at the first Women’s Global Leadership Institute. The theme […]
Every year, the annual campaign #16DaysOfActivism kicks off on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and runs until 10 December, Human Rights Day. This year marks the 30th anniversary of the campaign as it was originated in 1991 by activists at the first Women’s Global Leadership Institute.
The theme for 2021 is Orange the world: End violence against women now! As a part of the campaign, Operation PeaceMaker of My Choices Foundation organised and participated in multiple activities across the 16 days to engage the youth to create awareness about gender-based violence. We began the campaign by joining One Future Collective in an Instagram live session on Civil society response to domestic violence survivors during COVID-19. Here, Dr. Farzana Khan, Head of Programs, discussed how we supported survivors during the COVID-19 pandemic through our counselling and safe home and built a support system for survivors.
To initiate a discussion about gender stereotypes and gender-based violence we hosted a movie screening to sensitise the students at Government City College, Hyderabad about gender-based violence and its impact on women and girls. Various short movies like Black White, Impossible Dream and Babul were screened which was followed by a discussion on building perspectives about gender norms and their impact on the lives of women and girls.
“Inculcate gender equality in your life. If you want gender equality, remember to give a fair chance to women in your life, act on it. This world would be a better place”
– Student, Government City College, Hyderabad.
Focusing on creating awareness among the youth who we believe are the leaders of tomorrow, we collaborated with Youth Red Cross – VIT to conduct a YouTube Live session on Break the Silence on Violence. In this session, Dr. Farzana Khan shed light on the issues of violence against women and youth and how to address them.
To create awareness among the marginalised sections of the community, Save the Children, organised a session for women on dealing with gender-based violence in their communities. This interactive and informative session was conducted by Pearl Choragudi, Head of Interventions and Mumtaz Fatima, Counsellor from Operation PeaceMaker of My Choices Foundation. More than 30 women attended this session to discuss the various issues they face in their communities related to gender-based violence and our expert counsellors supported them to discuss the next steps to break the cycle of violence.
Our team of PeaceMakers and counsellors also conducted awareness programmes for women in the community in Hyderabad where they discussed the issues of domestic violence, child sexual abuse, child marriage and legal support available for survivors of domestic violence.
We focus on delivering awareness messages in creative ways that would inspire girls and boys to think about the issue we are discussing and also act on it. We organised a signature campaign where we encouraged the participants to discuss the myths that they would like to bust to achieve gender equality. A Street play was organised by our team in Howrah on “Hinsa Mukt Samaj ho, sabka Samaan Adhikaar ho” to bring awareness about gender-based violence and challenge conventional attitudes of men towards women. Our team in Warrangal organised another street play that focused on the impact of domestic violence on children and how the presence of our SuperSmart Shakti Girls Network in the community is helping young girls. The SuperSmart Shakti Girls’ Safety Network prioritises the safety of girls through creating awareness about gender-based violence and connecting them to a strong peer network. We adopt a multi-fold approach: connect girls to a peer network, equip them to recognise risks and resist pressures of early marriage, hazardous work and dropping out of school.
Beyond the campaign for #16daysofactivism, we conduct awareness programmes all year round. We have tailormade curriculums for each demographic of the society that ensures that the members of the community are sensitised and educated about issues of gender, masculinity, violence, gender-based discrimination, sexual harassment and laws related to them.
Movie screening at Government City College, Hyderabad
Community awareness session organised by Save the Children
Girls participating in the Signature Campaign
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My Choices Foundation makes inroads into Chhattisgarh with our Safe Village Program
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My Choices Foundation makes inroads into Chhattisgarh with our Safe Village Program
We are excited to announce that we organised our first Safe Village Program in the region of Bastar, Chhatisgarh, thus marking the beginning of a new (ninth) state to raise awareness and empower the community about sex trafficking with our innovative tools – comic books, flipcharts, helpline and counselling. During the sunny mid-afternoon on Saturday, […]
We are excited to announce that we organised our first Safe Village Program in the region of Bastar, Chhatisgarh, thus marking the beginning of a new (ninth) state to raise awareness and empower the community about sex trafficking with our innovative tools – comic books, flipcharts, helpline and counselling.
During the sunny mid-afternoon on Saturday, 4 December 2021, villagers happily welcomed the team of My Choices Foundation. Our team found shade to begin a meaningful exchange. When our Program Director, Vivian Issac, explained the purpose of the visit and what the Safe Village Program is all about, villagers paid careful attention to anti-trafficking messages. It instilled their curiosity and they had questions. This also helped our team to rediscover the passion and the intent of the work we do – as it happens in each of the Safe Village Programs – to create a safe living and thriving environment for every girl in the nation of India.
We started with our Safe Village Program in Jagdalpur, Chattisgarh due to a newspaper article we came across two years ago and have been working to make inroads in the state since then. In February 2020, a leading English newspaper daily reported that six trafficked children were rescued in Andhra Pradesh and one little girl was from Jagdalpur. Her little fingers were soiled and toiled because of numerous hours of labour work. We had been working with our network to find the right partner, who aligns with the mission of My Choices Foundation and were elated when we found one who is equally passionate as us.
As time passed, comic books were distributed and our engaging flip charts were a huge success too. The messages of Good Fathers, Informed Mothers, Guardian Girls and Smart Boys resonated with the villagers. It was an active and participatory discussion. As people made sense of the messages, two families came forward and said that two boys and one girl had gone missing two years ago. We gathered as much information possible to file a police complaint and with the help of our stakeholders are making efforts to get the children back home.
The community agreed to have all our sustainability elements of our Safe Village Program – Nodal Teacher, Gram Mitra, Rakshak and Community Leadership to ensure that the village is safe.
Reflecting on the Safe Village Program in Chhatisgarh, each Safe Village Program is a passionate exchange of knowledge that creates a lifeline of awareness for many people and a towards the path for a safe society.
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Grassroots volunteers stop child marriage in Karnataka
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Grassroots volunteers stop child marriage in Karnataka
Karishma*, 16 wanted to study but was being forced into getting married by her parents. With the support from our active network of grassroots leaders, we stopped the child marriage and ensured her safety. Karishma’s father lost his first wife. He remarried which resulted in family disputes among his four daughters and their step-mother. Due […]
Karishma*, 16 wanted to study but was being forced into getting married by her parents. With the support from our active network of grassroots leaders, we stopped the child marriage and ensured her safety.
Karishma’s father lost his first wife. He remarried which resulted in family disputes among his four daughters and their step-mother. Due to the crippling financial burden of raising his family, he decided to marry one of his daughters with minimal expenditure during the pandemic. Karishma who is only 16 was forced by her father to marry at a young age.
The rise of Child Marriage in Karnataka during the COVID-19 pandemic
During the COVID-19 lockdown, Karnataka witnessed a steep rise in the instances of child marriages. According to the Karnataka State Commission for Protection of Child Rights (KSCPCR), Childline recorded 2,180 child marriage cases in Karnataka from April 2020 to January 2021 (Source: The Hindu). The schools remain shut and girls stayed home, families used this opportunity to marry their underage girls as there was no school to monitor the attendance of the children. During the pandemic, as the restrictions grew, people started conducting smaller weddings which became another factor that influenced the rise in child marriages. Earlier as marriages would be a huge affair, people would notice and report via helpline, now they are being conducted within the confines of the family’s home, making it difficult to spot child marriages.
Call for rescue
To combat the rise of child marriage and sex trafficking in villages, we actively engaged in training and enlisting grassroots volunteers after conducting our awareness program – Safe Village Program. Our grassroots volunteers – Rakshaks, Nodal Teachers and Gram Mitras – are trained and equipped with tools and resources to report child marriage and sex trafficking and get the right support to prevent these crimes.
This training was helpful for our Rakshak when she became aware of Karishma getting married. She called our anti-trafficking helpline 1800 419 8588 informing us about the child marriage that is about to occur in the district of Vijayanagar, Karnataka. Once we received the call, our team sprang into action by alerting our implementing partner closest to the district People NGO to take action. They deployed their field trainer to visit the village to check on the situation. The field trainer took assistance from the Gram Panchayat, Asha Workers, Rakshak and Nodal Teacher who arrived at the venue of the engagement to rescue the child.
Once the child marriage was stopped, the parents were explained how it impacts girls. Karishma’s parents were explained, girls who enter child marriages are more likely to experience domestic violence are at a risk of early and unplanned pregnancy which increases the risk of maternal complications and mortality and are likely to remain out of school.
After explaining the risks of child marriage, Karishma’s parents were made to sign a letter that ensured that Karishma would continue her studies and would not be forced to marry before she turns 18. Karishma’s parents assured us that they would not make decisions that would negatively impact their children again. Today, Karishma is happy and is continuing her education.
Our Rakshak and Nodal Teachers are actively present in the community to ensure no child is left behind when it comes to getting an education. They are the eyes and ears of the community who work to ensure no girl loses her childhood by marrying at a young age.
This case refers to the minimum age of marriage as 18 since this incident took place before the Union Cabinet’s December 2021 amendment to the law.
*Name changed to protect the privacy of a young girl.
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Why do people stay in abusive relationships?
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Why do people stay in abusive relationships?
Relationships are complex and abusive relationships come with their own set of complexities. It is difficult to ‘just walk away’ from a relationship. It takes an immense amount of courage to leave. Domestic violence and abuse are about power and control and when a survivor walks away from the relationship they threaten the power and […]
Relationships are complex and abusive relationships come with their own set of complexities. It is difficult to ‘just walk away’ from a relationship. It takes an immense amount of courage to leave. Domestic violence and abuse are about power and control and when a survivor walks away from the relationship they threaten the power and control that their partner has established over them. This may cause the partner to respond in hurtful and harmful ways and hence makes the process of leaving very difficult.
Reasons for staying in an abusive relationship are extremely complex. One of the major reasons includes fear of retaliation from the perpetrator or the following through of the threats that the perpetrator has been using to ensure the survivor stays in the relationship. These could include fear of personal safety, the safety of children, custody of children, financial dependency, and much more. As the survivor is aware of the extent the perpetrator is willing to go, they may not be able to escape the relationship.
Leaving an abusive relationship is not as easy as simply walking away.
Why do people stay?
Many people fear for their personal and their child’s safety when they are in an abusive relationship. Besides the physical risks of staying in abusive relationships, there are also emotional and situational reasons involved regarding why people choose to stay.
A survivor goes through immense psychological and emotional turmoil which forces them to stay in abusive relationships. If you know someone who is being subjected to domestic violence, sensitive and unbiased are two words that one must never forget when talking to a survivor of domestic violence and abuse. Do remember that it is not easy for the survivor to leave their partner immediately. As a family member or friend always remember that, the survivor knows what is best for them. Be patient and supportive of the decisions that the survivor makes. They need friends and people around them who are willing to listen to them, have an open mind and are non-judgemental. The goal is never to get them to leave an abusive relationship or situation but rather to provide.
It is not your fault
If you are being subjected to abuse, you may feel scared, trapped, angry or confused. All of these are normal responses to instances of abuse and violence. Sometimes people also tend to blame themselves for the abuse they face. However, please know that abuse is never the survivor’s fault.
Please contact our toll-free helpline for free counselling, safe home and legal support 1800 212 9131, if it is unsafe to call leave us a message on WhatsApp- 9333 40 4141 and our team will get back to you. All calls are confidential.
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Domestic violence & abuse: How to get help?
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Domestic violence & abuse: How to get help?
Domestic violence is a violation of human rights. It is a consequence of minimising and discrediting the equal status of a woman in a patriarchal society. It can occur in any form – physical, sexual, verbal, psychological, economic, stalking, cyberstalking, or a combination of various forms of abuse. Recognising Domestic Violence and Abuse The first […]
Domestic violence is a violation of human rights. It is a consequence of minimising and discrediting the equal status of a woman in a patriarchal society. It can occur in any form – physical, sexual, verbal, psychological, economic, stalking, cyberstalking, or a combination of various forms of abuse.
Recognising Domestic Violence and Abuse
The first step to seeking help is to recognise the signs of abuse. Domestic violence can manifest in many forms. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to be on your guard around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive.
If you believe that you are a victim of domestic violence, here are some signs you can look out for:
Know more about the signs that you can look out for by reading this article.
Creating a Safety Plan
Leaving an abuser can be difficult. It is imperative to have a safety plan in place –
Getting help and support
Domestic violence in any form is unacceptable. If you are being subjected to domestic violence or are in an abusive relationship please call- 1800 212 9131, if it is unsafe to call leave us a message on WhatsApp- 9333 40 4141. Free, confidential counselling and support are available through our helpline services via our team of expert counsellors.
Watch this video to know more about what happens when you call our toll free number –
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Campaign uses comics to raise awareness of child trafficking in West Bengal
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Campaign uses comics to raise awareness of child trafficking in West Bengal
“My daughter is 15 years old and my husband was arranging for her marriage. When I read Surokhito Gram Karyakrom’s comic book, I learnt that girls shouldn’t get married before the age of 18. It’s not good for their health and the future. It was difficult to convince my husband, but he agreed eventually”, a […]
“My daughter is 15 years old and my husband was arranging for her marriage. When I read Surokhito Gram Karyakrom’s comic book, I learnt that girls shouldn’t get married before the age of 18. It’s not good for their health and the future. It was difficult to convince my husband, but he agreed eventually”, a mother from a remote village in the district of Bardhaman, West Bengal.
‘Surokhito Gram Karyakrom’ comic in the Bengali language aims to raise awareness among children, women and communities about child trafficking. The comic book focuses on the story of a ‘Guardian Girl’ Rani who educates the communities on how to protect children, women and girls from traffickers. The book delivers a trafficking prevention message in an appropriate cultural context and visual format, along with simple vocabulary to capture the attention of rural people, including people with low literacy levels.
Making it relevant to all ages, the comic book has characters of:
– A Good Father who protects his daughter ‘like a farmer protects his crops’
– An Informed Mother who ‘will not marry her daughter before she turns 18’
– A Guardian Girl who ‘is determined to study and raise awareness about child trafficking’
– A Smart Boy who ‘respects girls and acts an influencer to prevent trafficking’
“Child trafficking is a tough topic and our comic book is an effective means to communicate the dangers of trafficking in a way that is empowering, thoughtful and educational. It is resonant with readers of all ages and hugely popular among children. During our field visit, each participant is handed over a copy to take it back home. It stays with them and proves to be a reinforcing tool as the conversation about various characters continue to take place in their homes”, said Vivian Isaac, Program Director of My Choices Foundation.
West Bengal is one of the most vulnerable states where deep-rooted harmful societal practices such as child marriage, child labour and unsafe migration are highly prevalent. Additionally, COVID-19 has fuelled cases of child marriage and school dropouts, triggered by financial pressures and increased unsafe online practices. Thousands of women and girls are lured to cities each year by traffickers who promise good jobs or with a prospect of happy marriage, but sell them into modern-day slavery.
My Choices Foundation, Hyderabad based-NGO conducts Surokhito Gram Karyakrom, aimed at sensitising at-risk community members about child trafficking and commercial sexual exploitation by organising field-based programmes and communication tools such as comic books, flip charts, educational videos and roleplays.
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Victims’ voices lead the way!
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Victims’ voices lead the way!
Trafficking in Persons affects generations and not only individuals. The poor and vulnerable are the most susceptible and COVID-19 only reaffirmed this severe tragedy. The 2021 theme for World Day against Trafficking in Persons is, “Victims’ voices lead the way”. It speaks so many things all at once. It speaks the truth, it speaks to […]
Trafficking in Persons affects generations and not only individuals. The poor and vulnerable are the most susceptible and COVID-19 only reaffirmed this severe tragedy.
The 2021 theme for World Day against Trafficking in Persons is, “Victims’ voices lead the way”. It speaks so many things all at once. It speaks the truth, it speaks to the victims of abuse and it allows us the realisation, that hearing the voices of the victims and their truths, enables us to combat human trafficking.
My Choices Foundation held its 3rd Asian Anti-Trafficking Forum this week in anticipation of World Day against Trafficking in persons. We focused on equipping, strengthening and encouraging our grassroots’ stakeholders who work in the villages to keep the villages safe, encourage children and raise awareness on trafficking in persons.
This perfectly resonates with ‘Victims’ voices leading the way’. Through our grassroots stakeholders, we are able to amplify the voices of the victims and hear their accounts first-hand. Listening to the victims’ voices through our grassroots stakeholders allows us to focus on the crucial role they play in establishing effective measures to prevent trafficking, as well as measures to raise awareness more effectively through our Safe Village Program.
With the support from our grassroots’ stakeholders, we have conducted more than 5,000 Safe Village Programs across eight states in India, impacting 26,30,000 people. The programme adopts a holistic approach and focuses on sensitising at-risk community members about child trafficking, its causes, risk factors, creating awareness about ways to prevent child trafficking, sustaining the awareness and conducting vulnerability-reduction workshops. We believe that we can end sex trafficking together with collective knowledge and action.
On the 2021 World Day Against Trafficking in Persons, I honour our grassroot stakeholders who are committed to listening to the stories of the victims and give them a voice. At My Choices Foundation, we are committed to giving each and every woman and child the choice to live life free from abuse and sexual exploitation. We thank you for joining us in the fight!
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The emotional wellbeing of Police personnel during the pandemic
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The emotional wellbeing of Police personnel during the pandemic
Rachakonda Commissionerate (Hyderabad, Telangana), under the leadership of the Rachakonda Commissioner of Police Mr. Mahesh Bhagwath, Indian Police Service initiated a quarantine follow-up for the staff of the Commissionerate who were tested positive for COVID-19 (mild and moderate cases). My Choices Foundation was brought on board to conduct counselling sessions, along with the routine medical […]
Rachakonda Commissionerate (Hyderabad, Telangana), under the leadership of the Rachakonda Commissioner of Police Mr. Mahesh Bhagwath, Indian Police Service initiated a quarantine follow-up for the staff of the Commissionerate who were tested positive for COVID-19 (mild and moderate cases). My Choices Foundation was brought on board to conduct counselling sessions, along with the routine medical team group consultations. The purpose of the counselling sessions was to help the staff navigate through anxiety or serious health situations during this difficult time.
These calls focused on encouraging the staff and their family members to watch out for any COVID-19 related symptoms, referring them to an isolation facility opened exclusively for the Rachakonda Police Personnel and their families. We also encouraged them to consult the Department Doctor regularly, seek any referrals from Covid Control Room, reach out to their Senior Officers if they are in any need and maintain a healthy lifestyle.
Our team spoke and listened in a very empathic manner. Loneliness, fear of family members contracting the virus, fear of being hospitalized, hopelessness, uncertainty about their future, fear of losing their loved ones and the handling of the grief after losing their loved ones are some of the many things discussed and addressed during the calls. Some personnel were very deeply disappointed when they were tested positive again after their quarantine. Our team gently encouraged them to handle the disappointment till they tested negative. With time, the Personnel started looking forward to our calls as they enjoyed conversing with our team. It gave them an outlet to share their joys and sorrows.
Our team conducted follow-up calls to 330 Police Personnel daily until all of them tested negative. We conducted 3013 sessions from 26 May to 20 July 2021 with the police personnel to help them through these uncertain times.
It is difficult to maintain a healthy lifestyle and also be worry-free when someone is going through the COVID-19 crisis. The uncertainty and worries related to the spreading of infection to other family members, especially elderly parents, pregnant staff or family members of the infected staff and disruption of routines, our lifestyles can impact our mental health. The uncertainty about the future, the ceaseless news coverage and the constant social media-driven flood of messages can increase our sense of anxiety. Stress is a normal response in these situations. Stress disturbs our sleeping and eating patterns and leads to irritability or emotional outbursts and low motivation.
The Commissioner arranged for regular group consultations with the Medical team over the zoom along with Doctors and Senior Officials to encourage the COVID-19 affected personnel through this difficult time. Alongside the group consultations, individual follow-up calls were also conducted.
Feedback –
“My special thanks to the MCF team who succeeded to imbibe confidence at my depressive state once occurred.”
– Constable from the Rachakonda Commissionerate team.
“My Covid 19 report is negative. Thank you for supporting me during my time in isolation. Thank you for your moral support and motivation Madam.”
– Rachakonda Commissionerate team.
Mam, I wanted to share with you first about my negative report. Thank you for your support.
– Rachakonda Commissionerate team
My mother died yesterday night and my wife has been suffering from Covid for the past 4 days. I am in deep sorrow. Feeling very tensed about what will happen next? Thank you for these calls at least I can share my feelings in my difficult time.
– ARPC from the Rachakonda
Thank you Ma’am for the Pediatrician Contact number at the right time. Took consultation from the Doctor. Feeling relieved.
– Rachakonda Commissionerate team.
Evening: 4:45 Today’s call was all about how his day looked like. He shared that both he and his son are trying to follow the chart given by the Department. He can follow most of the activities mentioned, also spending time reading books, watching TV, He is also doing breathing exercises. Taught him a few relaxation techniques too.
– MCF Team Member notes
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My Choices Foundation at the multi-stakeholder hearing on the Global Plan of Action against Trafficking in Persons
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